I think we get used to the 2nd looks from parents of typical kids.  And the simple truth that our kids don’t get invited to many parties.  Here’s a recent story from a dad across the pond who had had enough and used Twitter to express his anger.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/4857833/dads-heartbreaking-autistic-son-invite-birthday-parties/  dad's rant