So the latest OCD behavior that my son Sean is manifesting is his refusal to use public bathrooms or port-o-johns.  Granted, most of us find those places a bit skeevy, but in a pinch, you use what you’ve got. Now when we take Sean to the beach, we have to make sure he has successfully gone to the bathroom until we get back.  Of course, that never works.

Lately, he has simply resorted to wetting himself in his bathing suit.  I have tried to shape this behavior (A.K.A. try to get lemonade out of this lemon situation) by having him go down by the water’s edge and splash around a bit.  This way, the resulting wet spot looks simply the result of the surf.  I then gently pour a bucket of ocean water over the spot to wash it away.  Of course, my OCD son then wants a dry bathing suit, but we have managed to aleve this need by quickly wrapping him in a towel and letting the sun quickly dry out his suit.

It’s all make shift, jerry-rigged solutions to OCD behavior.  But, it does allow us to stay at the beach for more than an hour, which wouldn’t be too fair to his brother and sister if we had to leave early. ocd-pacific-cbt