The boys enjoy bath time.  In fact, it is a respite for all parties concerned, especially their parents.  And so, for years and years, it’s been bath time.  Over the past few years, we no longer fill the tub, we just let the water run as it becomes a comfortable stim for the boys.  Susan and I wash their hair for them, literally using a plastic cup to rinse the shampoo out of their hair.  We then ask the boys to use a washcloth as best they can.  That has kept them reasonably clean.

Shower

But this is the summer of showering!  To start, I replaced the old shower head in their bathroom with an extended arm and a gentle rain shower head.  To be fair, the old shower head was pretty crappy and only sent out a single jet of water.  This should be far less intimidating for the boys.

Of course, they now have to relearn their new routine and become much more self sufficient.  Hell, I don’t care how long they stay in there as long as they clean up and wash their hair.

They’re only about a decade delayed in being able to shower on their own, but raising autistic kids has nothing to do with staying on “normally developing” kids’ schedules.  It’s when its right for them and another step towards being self sufficient.