A Dad's Journey

Father of Autistic Twins Speaks Out

Browsing Posts published in November, 2017

Traveling with your autistic child is always challenging.  Not to mention handling him/her when you get to your destination.  Hopefully, your relatives are rather forgiving.

When we travel (fortunately, not far to my sister’s house), we plan how to best manage Michael & Sean.  Sean will look to spend time outside blowing bubbles.  But it is late fall and the temps will only be in the mid 40’s, so he can’t stay outside forever.  Susan has come up with other activities for Sean so that he can periodically come inside to break up his day, do some useful activities before he resumes bubble blowing.

Michael likes to perch by the island table in the kitchen and just graze all day.  How that kid stays skinny is a testament to his metabolism.  In a similar vein, we need to break up his day a bit and actually make him part of the Thanksgiving occasion.

It’s easy sometimes to just let your autistic child do their thing, while you catch up with family, adult beverages and football (well, it’s awfully easy for me).  But I need to remind myself

Painting by Jack, diagnosed with autism at age 3. Jack is nonverbal and likes to communicate through his artwork

Painting by Jack, diagnosed with autism at age 3. Jack is nonverbal and likes to communicate through his artwork (Autism Speaks)

that being an autistic parent doesn’t come with a free pass for the Holidays.   Still, I’m looking forward to tomorrow.

Wishing all of you the best of the Holidays and hopefully, a wonderful Thanksgiving with your children.

Best regards,

Kevin

 

I think we get used to the 2nd looks from parents of typical kids.  And the simple truth that our kids don’t get invited to many parties.  Here’s a recent story from a dad across the pond who had had enough and used Twitter to express his anger.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/4857833/dads-heartbreaking-autistic-son-invite-birthday-parties/  dad's rant